I read DerekOn! a few weeks ago, and I thought what he was saying was marvelous. Women are, some women, are conditioned to be materialistic, time consuming, self-centered, etc.

I have heard the expression Pedestal Women, to say it nicely. They expect too much and give to little in return, as though they are trophies. For these women, men are beneath them, being under the impression that all men want is one thing. Those women are gold diggers, groupies, or wannabe's, who do not have a clue on how to be a woman--their morals and values are lacking.

A lot of these poor souls have wrong thoughts. Some of their thinking is the result of bad relationships; some is the result of poor family values; some is the result of narcissism; some is the result of too much male attention.

There are a chosen few down females out there, just as there are a chosen few down brothers out there--those who are comfortable with themselves, can accept criticism, and are willing to improve; they have standards and do not go below those standards.

But those who do not have a clue and have learned from music videos everything they know, they are hopelessly in la-la land. BUT if some of our brothers would grow up, then, maybe, the women who are lost will get a clue. FTW