Tiree. is a young man who has the courage to speak his mind and entertain the fallout. He has been in relationships and knows the pain and tragedies of them. His advice is not that of a psychologist, but of a man who has known the joys of love and the pains of loss. You may not like what he says, but Gibbs asked him to speak his mind, answer the fallout.
People can be crude
People attempting to flirt can be so crude. Last week, I was in a San Francisco market and this woman looked at me very strangely because this gay person was flirting and trying to get my attention. I was aware of his flirting. I thought the man was asking real questions. He wasn't.
He kept looking intensely at me, and I forgot about where I was, so I didn't pay any attention to his looks. I told him what he asked about and went on. He came back to me for another question that seemed dumb. I answered his question and went on. But when he came back the third time, I started to see that he was trying to pick me up.
I got angry and said, "Man, this is becoming a nuisance. I'm not gay. Don't try to pick me up any more." And he got angry. I didn't get loud or anything, but I said that I didn't have any attraction to a man at all. This man started to tell me all that he could do to me. And I called the guard on him.
I
guess that is how women feel when straight men try to pick them up, they
say no, and they don't stop. I found the man crude, vulgar, and obscene.
I'm an average brother who doesn't look gay at all to me. But what does
a gay look like? He didn't look gay. He looked and dressed as the Fruit
of Islam (FOI) that you see guarding some Black Muslim leader. But the
brother was gay and a dog that would not stop.
People can be crude when it comes to sex, but this brother reinforced all the stereotypes of homosexual men I know. []
That's it from me, Tiree.
